Dating my boyfriend month
Once we hit a year we probably won't do that anymore.
Invariably if the person I’m speaking to has been single at any point in the last decade, then yes, they know exactly what I mean, because if there’s one scenario that’s become endemic amongst myself and my peers, it’s our inability to define a relationship after the first five or six dates. Is it too soon to refer to someone as your boyfriend? If you’ve been on 12 dates with someone, you really don’t still want to be seeing other people do you?We can be in touch with our potential paramours all the time – via texts, on Facebook, on email – and this constant contact can be misleading – giving us the impression that we’re embroiled in something much more meaningful than we really are. My reasoning being that if someone doesn’t feel strongly enough about me after a couple of months, then they’re never going to feel strongly enough for me to spend time and energy on them.But the fact is – and this is something I’ve had to learn the hard way – if one of you isn’t calling it a relationship, Then. Yes, I could hang around, try and coax them into it, or just generally refuse to go away until it becomes easier for them to give in – but who wants to do that?Back then we were 18/19, so being juvenile was expected haha. To each their own, I suppose My boyfriend and i would just text eachother happy 3 months or happy 8 months and that would be it.We're long distance so we never saw eachother for any of the monthiversaries but i doubt we'll do that anymore because we hit a year.So if ppl wanna celebrate every day they're together, more power to em!!!! My boyfriend and I never bothered with monthly "anniversaries" I personally don't see a point.
Then again, I know some people who are only in relationships for about 3 months at a time... When my bf and I started dating 10 years ago, the first year we celebrated months.
But it is kinda sweet when he would tell me happy x months!
Gotta celebrate the little things We acknowledge that we made it another month together but we don't celebrate it at all, I guess.
I'm curious if anyone has the same views as me on this specific topic.
As much as I say I hate it, I still do it without realizing.
He's so good to me and I love cute stuff like that.