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Some psychopaths instruct women to dress very modestly, to cover themselves practically from head to toe, so that they won’t tempt other men.Others, on the contrary, prefer that their women dress provocatively even in public, to demean them and satisfy their penchant for transgression.
He begins by being very sensual and affectionate, but eventually induces her to engage in perverse sexual acts that she feels uncomfortable with.Since they need transgression, risk and variety in their lives, they’re likely to have tried a lot of sexual positions in many locations with numerous partners.Initially, their ample sexual experience can appear exciting even to a normal person.Eventually, psychopaths need more transgression, more depraved and sadistic acts, harder pornographic material, more sleazy places, more sexual partners and configurations, more everything, to derive the same degree of enjoyment from sex.You begin to feel like a sex toy, nothing more than an object, rather than the cherished, attractive human being you thought you were in your partner’s eyes. We want to be desired as sex objects but also loved and appreciated as individuals. Of course, they often convincingly fake feelings of love in the beginning.The psychopath betrays you whether or not you meet his demands.
The only question is: does he do it openly, to torment you, or behind your back, to deceive you?
In the honeymoon phase of the relationship, a psychopath is generally hypersexual with you.
He’s excited by the chase and the “conquest,” by the novelty, by the fact that he’s (most likely) cheating on other women and on you, as well as by the increasing control he’s exercising over you.
Many psychopaths engage in rape and other forms of domestic violence.
Even giving you pleasure gives them a sense of power.
Analogously, from your perspective, the aura of romance, excitement and spontaneity can be very seductive.