Am i dating a female sociopath
That can be quite indirect, but typically extremely vicious.
The last sentence is impossible to understand by just reading this page, You need to see couple of movies depicting such a character and first of all Dangerous Liaisons In this film Glenn Close (she also presents similar, but more close to the borderline personality character in Fatal Attraction ) created an unforgettable character of a female sociopath (Marquise de Merteuil), while John Malkovich created even more impressive and pretty sinister and more convincing male sociopath character ( Vicomte de Valmont). We become slaves the moment we hand the keys to the definition of reality entirely over to someone else.Like all sociopaths they are natural born, talented actors and have the astonishing ability to tell bare-faced lies and remain calm, utterly shameless if caught.They also can preseve cool demeanor in really dangerous situation.The problem is that due to their charm the victim typically fails to pay any attention to them.Here this page might, probably, help as, hopefully, it provides a framework and several checklists for analyzing such a person.Despite inability to feels love, they can imitate it and they are often seductive.
There are no telling signs that they deceive you, other then some minor inconsistencies in their life stories, a little bit free dealing with the facts, a little bit exaggerated emotions and attempts of love bombing.
As a rule female sociopaths are much more vicious and vendettful than man sociopaths. They can break important promises and betray the partner, if it suits their needs, with such an ease that your jaw can simply drop.
You can lean a lot about female psychopath by studying politicians. As bosses they cultivate "close circle" which is often selected on the base of blind loyalty, sometimes sweetened by sex or a promise of sex "really soon". Typically, they are somewhat sadistic, especially toward women -- which means that they experience pleasure from suffering of their victims.
They are really like a proverbial person, who killed her/his parents, and then asks for lesser sentence because she is now an orphan.
While they are adept in masking their real mean and cruel personality some signs and discrepancies in their acting and in their life stories (which are always fictional) are often visible.
This is not clear from the first watching of the film, but if you watch it the second time from the specific angle of Marquise de Merteuil behaviour as a sociopath, you can probably learn a few things about this condition.