Dating too fast
Just because a guy says they like something about you doesn’t mean you need to get in a relationship.Some guys can talk but it doesn’t mean you need to fall head over heels for them.
Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of a relationship.If it even RESEMBLES a small taste of what has been missing, she grabs it, not being logical in her actions but so emotionally consumed that filling that void is all she sees.” I have talked to thousands of teenagers and young adults who keep making the same mistake over and over again.I tell myself if I can just get some of these tragic souls to slow down and get a hold of themselves, I can save them hours of unnecessary drama and needless suffering.Just remember what Jessica has to say: “Don’t jump in too quick, get to know the guy first.Talk to people who know him and that will help you see the real him.But sadly, many people want to feel that rush of emotion that makes them feel like they are in love. The truth is that the best dating relationships develop out of great friendships.
So they push hard and quickly to feel that overwhelming emotion that says, I am in love. Riah describes how rushing into a relationship has a lot of disadvantages: “First, if you go too far you could get hurt mentally because of a bad break-up, and physically you could get an STD or something.
While it is a great thrill to meet someone you connect with, or feel attracted to, don’t let your love hunger to be in a relationship throw you into a situation that is going to distract and hurt you.
Amber is honest when she admits her need to always be in a relationship: I’m always told that I act immature in relationships and I tend to push them over the edge.
I do not trust men and I feel the need to test them to see if they will hurt me.
When a girl is hurt by a male or she lives life with an absent father figure, there is a void in her soul and she searches high and low to fill it.
Make sure he has a good relationship with his family.