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However, as you know, I can no more stop men from being men than I can stop the earth from turning.

New forms of electronic communication seem to always generate their own new language varieties and SNS language is briefly discussed.Again, I’m not remotely judgmental of those who have sex without commitment; I will only point out as a dating coach that it tends to lead to sub-optimal results from men because they didn’t have to do anything special to get into bed with you.Note: there will be no comments about slut-shaming, since no one is shaming anyone, nor calling anyone a slut.Nor will there be comments about how you slept with your boyfriend on the first date and he became your husband.The many exceptions don’t disprove the rule that giving men sex without demanding better treatment is not the best idea.If you’ve ever wondered why it seems that men are okay with no-strings-attached sex while women tend to suffer with this arrangement, watch this video closely.

It affirms everything that I’ve ever written about sex and gender in a very logical, concrete manner. And if, due to equality, birth-control, libido, societal acceptance, and insecurity, many women are willing to have sex with men who don’t call, pay, commit, or make an effort, then those women are essentially teaching men that they do not have to behave well to procure sex.

You have an amazing evening, filled with easy conversation and laughter. You close the restaurant, end with a goodnight kiss, and a promise to do this again soon. In fact, you do a little more than that, but hold a little bit back. He says good night and tells you he’ll call the next day. As a result of this wishful thinking, Sandy was as hurt by this man’s simple email as she would have been if they’d been dating and broken up. She could have that sick feeling in the pit of her stomach and lose sleep over how she’s going to replace him. As a result, Sandy wasn’t “losing” anything; she never had anything to lose. It’s not that Sandy was wrong to look at all the available signs and conclude that she had special connection with a special guy.

He texts you the next day to say he had fun, and instantly makes plans for the following Friday evening. He checks in during the week – a call here, an email there – not too needy, not too distant. I shared in Sandy’s pain, then informed her that she could respond in 1 of 2 ways: 1) She could be devastated that Mr. 2) She could realize that she’d never even MET this man. Anyone in her right mind would draw the same conclusion.

The chapter is supported by a series of My Space investigations to illustrate key points and give additional information.

Finally, the potential for programmers to create small applications to run within SNSs or with SNS data is discussed and speculations made about future developments.

You want to know why your heart gets broken each time a new guy disappears?