Truth about being overweight and dating
Unlike Joy Beth, I am now on the other side of the dating abyss.
Children of single mothers do poorly on every imaginable scale: they have more emotional problems, experience more stress, are more likely to grow up poor, they have lower educational achievements and experience way more behavioral problems than children who grow up with married parents.I regularly go for walks – I even started a local walking organization. But guess what – I also like beer, and chocolate, and hamburgers, and I hate weight lifting!So yes, I am going to have some extra weight on me. I have watched my mom go her whole life on and off diets (she’s now on paleo) and I realized that the diet rollercoaster never stops unless you choose to get off.You might not be the FIRST man she blames all her problems on, but you sure as hell can be NEXT. On the whole, give single and divorced mothers a pass. Little girls long for daddies as much as little boys. The children of single mothers have already been wounded so deeply by the lack of a father. Lots of love, JB Janet Bloomfield has an undergraduate degree in Film Theory and she has read most historical and current feminist theory. She was banned from Twitter for creating the hashtag #Women Against Feminism, which continues to flourish without her presence.And for the love of god, if you decide to give one a spin, STAY AWAY FROM THE CHILD. To give them some hope that it might be YOU, and then leave them is unspeakably cruel. You can’t save those little innocents, but you can save them from hurting even more. She has an MBA and a rewarding career as a wife to her husband of 15 years and a mother to their three children.Written with a raw truth, she talks about the difficulties of dating as an overweight Christian woman.
How being overweight is both perceived to be the primary reason she’s single and a moral failing: Reading her post, I just thought YES!!!!! So often in my own dating life, the fact that I wasn’t a size six seemed to be the primary determinant of my singleness.
You can pick up a heroin addiction, drop out of high school, rob a bank or decide to write the great American novel financing yourself on your credit cards. You can go to rehab, get your GED, get parole, and pay off those cards. A modern man doesn’t turn up his nose at a woman with some sexual experience who might have learned a trick or two from previous lovers about what men REALLY like, or more likely, she learned how to FIND OUT, but the majority of men would like to see a NEW sign on her uterus. When a man picks a wife, he wants to know he won’t be competing with some random babydaddy who was there before him. A great wife and mother places the needs and happiness of her husband and children ABOVE her own needs, and in doing so, finds her greatest happiness. But a woman who makes YOU the center of her life is going to be a great wife. Oh, that’s the story she’ll spin for you, because really, what women is going to sit there and say “I’m an unbearably controlling and irrational cunt who made my husband’s life such hell he decided he would rather be a weekend Dad than spend one more second with me”. What kind of delusional self-image does a woman have, if she can fall for a con artist with a gambling habit that would shame Charlie Sheen?
But once you have a child, you cannot take it back. Third, single mothers profoundly misunderstand men. There are few men who are overjoyed to spend their blood, sweat and tears on some other guy’s genetic offspring. A woman who cares so little about her children, her own prospects, and her future husband is NOT going to make a great wife. Oh, and in return, you have to make HER the center of your life. When you meet a divorced single mother, immediately start looking for the flaw. Something that drove another man to pledge his undying love to her, to have and to hold, from this day forth, and then sometime later decide “fuck this shit. Be very cautious around a woman who takes none of the blame for her failed marriage.
Richard La Ruina claims he’s an ‘expert’ in dating and has come to the conclusion that we should stop dating British women and exchange them for Eastern European women.
A modest man indeed, Richard claims to have dated at least 200 ‘good and beautiful Russian women’ who he thinks are much better than British women as they are, in his honest and humble opinion ‘overweight’ and ‘entitled’.
Who you are is so much more important than what you weigh.