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The addage that this kind of shaming is a violation of privacy is true but it's not the conversation we should be having.If news commentators discussed conventional sexual assault in the same way they discuss revenge porn, they just wouldn't get away with it.Here in Australia, on a national radio program called Hack, Adam Creighton agreed with a caller's analogy, that you shouldn't take naked photos as a precaution, in the same way that you should make sure you lock your car. Watch John Oliver make mince meat of this kind of coverage. Revenge porn sites almost exclusively feature women. Revenge porn does not stick to men because no one really cares.On the crudest level we think of this as the natural order of things because in the classic sense of rape, men are bigger and stronger and have a penis they can penetrate you with.But in the digital world, both men and women are equally capable of posting photos.Revenge porn is digital sexual assault and should be approached with more accurate language. Sending a naked picture to a lover who then posts that picture to a public forum is like consenting to sex with one person once and getting a gang bang, over and over again.

When outspoken feminists use language we associate with sexual assault when discussing revenge porn, it is considered novel because we haven't yet caught up with ourselves.

The narratives we're listening to as revenge porn reaches mainstream news aren't just about victim blaming, they're about negotiating a new age of digital interactions and an ugly manifestation of how women are viewed and treated.

We're just looking at it through the brutally honest mirror of social media.

Revenge porn is a manifestation of how men are taught to think of women and women are taught to behave.

Without getting carried away, this is still a slim minority.

Naked photos and sexting are as much a part of sex for our generation as the missionary position was for our grandparents.