Interracial dating discussion questions
How would you feel if one of your daughters wanted to date a BM?I know some are good but a lot of them have deep rooted issues with black women.
I am a BW and I have a daughter from a relationship with a BM. I don’t see them getting any better years to come and I don’t want my daughter to experience the abuse (physically, emotionally, psychologically) that they bring to the table.We work together, we clearly love one another, and they see their mom living a pretty darned good life.Their father loves them and is an excellent provider and protector, and is loving and affectionate.Not to mention that asians easily surpass whites in income, IQ, and SAT scores in Math.Finally, among the other races in the US, the gender disparity in STD rates is far less pronounced.I just ignored him and was saying to myself “keep rolling because I am not even checking for you.” My daughter looked at me with a shocked face like “MOM” I told her I was sorry but told her I was not looking for someone who plays loud music, cornrows,saggy jeans and a white tee.
How do I talk to her and let her know about them with out bashing?
As a mother of three daughters myself, trust me, I understand your concern.
You are smart not to speak ill of black men or demand she not date them, because teenagers take a lot of pleasure in driving their parents nuts dating people their parents forbid them to.
I don’t want to talk down about BM to my daughter but I am not going to sugar coat it either.
One occasion she and I were driving and a BM pulled along side of me and was looking my way.
As we shall see, the lack of power among asian women in interracial relationship with white men helps to explain their high rates of STDs, given the sexual activity among white men.